Bullying.

**Yosei** · 02-21-2009, 01:17 AM

I was bullied a lot when I was little. I was the little chubby kid. It was the worst in Middle School. I actually got picked on for being fat by a girl who was fatter than me o.O how that works, I dunno. But yeah. Never let it get to you. People who are like that usually have some inner anger issues or they're grudging someone. Like.. a bad home life. And sometimes, they just haven't been raised right. Their parents or guardians didn't teach them any better. How to respect people, how to judge people, etc. Does that give them an excuse? Of course not.

What I did was treat them like they were retarded. Like, example:

Guy: *snork* Hey, eating that isn't going to help you lose weight.
Girl: Excuse me? Did I say I was trying to lose weight? No, I didn't. Was I even talking to you? Of course not, because that would be a waste of my time now wouldn't it? Yeah, because I'm just way too busy working on being fat because I just want to be that way. *smiles* *gives him the finger* *turns away*

Stuff like that usually shuts them up. Especially with me, I was quiet, but then when someone would say something mean to me like that, I would just simple belittle them right back. When they pick on you, they are expecting you to shy away, panic, cry, etc, whatever makes them feel like the bigger person.

Jikanu · 02-21-2009, 01:20 AM

Originally Posted by Yosei

I was bullied a lot when I was little. I was the little chubby kid. It was the worst in Middle School. I actually got picked on for being fat by a girl who was fatter than me o.O how that works, I dunno. But yeah. Never let it get to you. People who are like that usually have some inner anger issues or they're grudging someone. Like.. a bad home life. And sometimes, they just haven't been raised right. Their parents or guardians didn't teach them any better. How to respect people, how to judge people, etc. Does that give them an excuse? Of course not.

What I did was treat them like they were retarded. Like, example:

Guy: *snork* Hey, eating that isn't going to help you lose weight.
Girl: Excuse me? Did I say I was trying to lose weight? No, I didn't. Was I even talking to you? Of course not, because that would be a waste of my time now wouldn't it? Yeah, because I'm just way too busy working on being fat because I just want to be that way. *smiles* *gives him the finger* *turns away*

Stuff like that usually shuts them up. Especially with me, I was quiet, but then when someone would say something mean to me like that, I would just simple belittle them right back. When they pick on you, they are expecting you to shy away, panic, cry, etc, whatever makes them feel like the bigger person.

but im not that quick witted... i can think of stuff later, but im not good under pressure x.x

and when i DO say something witty, they push me and cuss me out ._.

**Hraesvelg** · 02-21-2009, 01:24 AM

http://www.publishersweekly.com/arti...rles_atlas.JPG

Lamenting the fact that some people are dicks is an exercise in futility. It sounds like you're an easy mark. Until you learn to either deal with it or not let it bother you, you'll just be a ticking time bomb waiting for a little thing to push you over the edge into a Columbine type thing.

Jikanu · 02-21-2009, 01:25 AM

Originally Posted by Hraesvelg

http://www.publishersweekly.com/arti...rles_atlas.JPG

lol... the 50's = fail.

ClericalMakey · 02-21-2009, 08:20 PM

theres mean ppl all over the place , i have a 13 yr old son that plays this game thats been bulled luckly iam a high enough lvl to kill the bullies but its not the right way and outsparks dont seem to understand or deal with this issue.Just remember ur a better person and buy teva

**kirbysprite** · 02-21-2009, 08:47 PM

This isn't about bullying in Fiesta. This is about bullying in real life.

**Yosei** · 02-21-2009, 10:27 PM

Don't forget karma!

I remember in Middle school, there was this one chick, ugh, she was a b*tch. No other way to describe her, thats how she was. She thought she was better than everyone, and if you bumped into her in the hall, it was you who should have been watching where she was walking. She once got into a fight with a girl over that x.x the girl didn't just take it though, the girl yelled at her right back, and yeah, it got physical. Anywho....

That girl didn't make it past 10th grade.

mattman1995 · 04-04-2009, 07:05 PM

You can compare us to animals to visualize it better. You've probably seen animals fighting, animals have hate too. And because we are animals, we naturally feel hate, sometimes for stupid or no reason. For example, I was at a zoo, I looked down at a monkey who was in a ditch far down with bars around him. I was looking at him, he felt disrespect because I had it better than him, I wasn't confined in a cage. What did he do? He threw a rock up and almost hit me in my jingle bells (if you know what I mean) luckly it hit the bar. We feel anger just as that evil monkey did.

Jikanu · 04-04-2009, 09:27 PM

Anger=/=hate... anger is frustration, the feeling of jealousy or something in a concentrated manner. Hatred is the wishing of evil upon someone, the wishing of harm to come to someone

and didnt this thread die a long time ago? O_o

**Hraesvelg** · 04-04-2009, 10:32 PM

Anger leads to hate, and hate leads to suffering.