That was mean. D:

**Loveless** · 04-23-2009, 06:49 PM

Yeah, cause being a mod and co-owner of site means you know everything. Do tell me how to run this fansite cause I've never modded before FF, oh high and mighty.

You like the fansite but don't like how it's run? Do you guy think we read minds? Why do you think we have sections dedicated for you guys to share what you think and even talk to the mods personally. Typical, the only time you guys voice your opinion is when someone does something bad. And only come across as rude yourselves. Real life, you think that if management is bad and you talk to them with your current "oh I've done this before so you should listen to me" attitude will change anything?

None of us are perfect. Communication with the community and its members are key to making things better. You don't tell us what we're doing wrong we're never going to know. To top it off if you come with us or anyone for that matter, with a bad attitude that's not going to go down well either. Most forget that mods/admins and even those at Outspark are humans and like Spirit said, may be dealing with real life issues that'll make things on the forums less than trivial.

And "to be absolutely honest", I don't care if you have little respect because that is exact the amount of respect you're going to get back from me.

Hazu · 04-24-2009, 03:59 AM

Originally Posted by Loveless

Yeah, cause being a mod and co-owner of site means you know everything. Do tell me how to run this fansite cause I've never modded before FF, oh high and mighty.

You like the fansite but don't like how it's run? Do you guy think we read minds? Why do you think we have sections dedicated for you guys to share what you think and even talk to the mods personally. Typical, the only time you guys voice your opinion is when someone does something bad. And only come across as rude yourselves. Real life, you think that if management is bad and you talk to them with your current "oh I've done this before so you should listen to me" attitude will change anything?

None of us are perfect. Communication with the community and its members are key to making things better. You don't tell us what we're doing wrong we're never going to know. To top it off if you come with us or anyone for that matter, with a bad attitude that's not going to go down well either. Most forget that mods/admins and even those at Outspark are humans and like Spirit said, may be dealing with real life issues that'll make things on the forums less than trivial.

And "to be absolutely honest", I don't care if you have little respect because that is exact the amount of respect you're going to get back from me.

xD Sadly I find this post funny, weird sense of humor I guess. When someone types things when it seems like they're irritated...

And by stating I've modded things and such- was meant as I'm not naive about things like this, I know what it's like to try to please everyone and somepeople still complaining and upset about this or that or something totally unfixable

And I only voice my opinion when I think something was done wrongly like how Sparky was snapped at (In my opinion). Because honestly I'd prefer to keep away from angering the mods on this site so I like to keep happily in my guild forum. Away as much as possible from things and keep my mouth shut about other things. Way of the world to comform and hide from the ones with powers so not to be striked down by it. Idk.

~ Nya having no respect from you is no loss

and I think I'll stop posting here so I dont get the whole of FF hating me o-o

**Belaslav** · 04-24-2009, 04:21 AM

Boy was I wrong.

**Loveless** · 04-24-2009, 04:45 AM

**Blaaaaaaaah** · 04-24-2009, 04:53 AM

Originally Posted by Hazu

And I only voice my opinion when I think something was done wrongly like how Sparky was snapped at (In my opinion)

Just a side note though.

I hope you weren't expecting us to change anything that you were unhappy with after saying you have no respect for us.

That kind of attitude really won't get you anywhere when it comes to working with other people in real life. When you get out there to work with other people, you're bound to come across people you won't be happy with. Heck, not even work, maybe even just school if you get teamed with people you don't like for group projects. If they do something you don't agree to and you wish for them to change, would you go ahead and say "I have no respect for you, but I think you should stop doing this and do this". I certainly hope not, and I hope I don't have to explain why.

But, if you weren't intending to ask for changes for the forum, then cool beans. You're entitled to your opinion, that's for sure. I don't expect everyone here to love us. At least I know that you were not expecting us to change something from that post.

Not saying everything we do is perfect. We do change when members asked (in a reasonable way).

If you do really want to make suggestions on the forums, then may I suggest to you to keep those little comments aside. That probably would make it sound like I'm saying "oh, you don't like me? Then I don't like you so I won't listen to you", but it's more of "I won't listen until I've been spoken to with proper manners".

Why? Because I'm human and have feelings, yay. Of course, if you don't intend to ask for changes, then you can ignore everything I've said above.

Constructive feedback will never be constructive feedback if you include how you dislike them. I don't think it's too hard. I hope not, anyway.