[Lady-Loki]

KK, hate to double post - but I have an update.

The second option, uncontested, is confirmed as the forced divorce. My mage lost her marriage buff and wedding pets. I don't know if it was a 3 day delay or 4 day delay since I did not log her on (that I recall) last night, but tonight is is definitely divorced.

I still do not know how much I paid for that divorce since I was not really intending to apply for it at the time I accidentally did, however, I can confirm that the first option, collaborative, took 250s when I intentionally applied for a divorce on my archer girl. I am assuming it took that same amount from Manz when he told the wedding NPC he wanted the divorce also.

And, yes, there is a reason for all this madness - my mage, who is now my main was married to someone who no longer plays so I want her married to Manzcar since we party together more and I am on my mage more than my archer.