omg, please, help,, can you get a divorce on fiesta?

[Lady-Loki]

Well, I wish the divorce process were better defined. I wanted to look at the options and I think I applied for the agreed divorce option. Sad thing is the other person does not play Fiesta anymore and cannot agree.

Here is what I saw:



Confusing to me since collaborative is an agreed option and uncontested seems similar. To me the forced option should be identified as non-collaborative. Anyway, confused by those options so I selected option 2: uncontested - and I get this:



Now, odd thing is, I am still married.

As for cost? I have no idea. It never told me how much either option was (that was what I was actually hoping to determine when I went to talk to the wedding NPC anyway), so I feel sure some money was taken from my account, I just don't know how much I had to begin with so I don;'t know how much was taken.

And, that said, I don't know if there is a period of time before the wedding is removed from my character or if I actually applied for the one that the other person has to selact also. If that is the one I selected then it seems to me that the NPC should have told me my spouse was not there like she does if you try to register to get married & the engaged partner is not in a close enough proximity.

I guess I will give it a few days and see if the divorce has a time period to wait before it appears as applied and if it still shows her married I will try to see if support can assist.

Edit, I hope what this post has is not actually the case. If it is then how do you get a divorce if the other person does not play at all anymore?

[Lady-Loki]

KK, hate to double post - but I have an update.

The second option, uncontested, is confirmed as the forced divorce. My mage lost her marriage buff and wedding pets. I don't know if it was a 3 day delay or 4 day delay since I did not log her on (that I recall) last night, but tonight is is definitely divorced.

I still do not know how much I paid for that divorce since I was not really intending to apply for it at the time I accidentally did, however, I can confirm that the first option, collaborative, took 250s when I intentionally applied for a divorce on my archer girl. I am assuming it took that same amount from Manz when he told the wedding NPC he wanted the divorce also.

And, yes, there is a reason for all this madness - my mage, who is now my main was married to someone who no longer plays so I want her married to Manzcar since we party together more and I am on my mage more than my archer.

[Melissa27]

oops, sorry. wrong post

[Everina]

I got divorced. It took me about 7 days after divorce was completed for me to be able to re-marry.

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