I need to vent >.>

[a.L]

No offense Jik, but you remind me of Rod and Todd Flanders from the Simpsons. ;P

El oh el.

[Phantom Badger]

I'm going to repeat what other's have said

'Help yourself'

By this I don't mean throw a ball back or something, just ignore them, don't LET yourself be a wimp, you'll have to fight at one point or you'll get walked over and end up killing yourself at age 21. I hate fighting too, but I've learned that I can throw a mean left hook, and you need tpo learn to do it unexpectedly.
Or, find a sport you do like, such as Badminton or Basketball and join an after-school club. It'll help you get in shape and you'll make more friends.
And make an effort to make more friends, they'll stick up for you. (Obviously know who you wont be the friends of the docuhebags, but you get the idea)

I've made a load of friends at the end of Year 8/early Year 9 so don't start saying you can't because it's too far in the school year.

But whatever, Suit yourself.
If you want to start moaning about how the other kid called you homo then don't come crying to us because we just wont care. Well I can't speak for everyone, but I wont. ^^

<3

[Ralath]

^Well, that was a little trite...... >__>

[Phantom Badger]

*looks up Trite*


...Sorry :3

[Vasu]

hm... so basically you're saying thinking of it positively makes the situation positive?

No, I'm saying, that you feel dealing with jerk is a sort of "low" in life. It isn't. It's the terra-firma. If you meet someone who's intelligent, coherent, and makes a good friend, then you're on a mountain. Something worse than jerks, is a ditch.

[Enraya]

Go get some friends...

I don't usually brood over death or what comes after death or the declining world unless I'm alone and depressed or something. When I'm with friends, I'm always happy and laughing and making jokes. xD So... if you don't think you have the right attitude to get over what they did to you, at least try to divert yourself from thinking about it.
If your friends don't make you feel happier, well, I don't have much more to offer. ._.

If I had been in a situation like that with one of my close friends, we would've started plotting against everyone LOL. My friend has a very creative mind, and soon enough our make-believe scenarious would fly us off and we'd forget all about what happened~ =o=

[Kreain]

stop being a total idiot, call them names too but not stupid names, swear word names, and if they laugh, say "f*ck you" but dont do it in anger do it with a smile, always makes them shut the f*ck up

it will also make them stop aiming at you

[Manzcar]

So I may be stating stuff that has already been stated but ohhh well.

What is funny is that this sort of thing has gone on forever, and unfortunately it does happen when you get older. A wise man once said that you can not lean on your own understanding. What this really means is that no matter how hard you try you can not understand the human nature that exists in all of us.

They pick on you because they get a reaction from you that they can either laugh at or make fun of, which makes them feel big. You go to your teacher that looks at you like Hrae has and says man up it’s a wiffle ball. She is indifferent to the situation.

The problem here is that you are trying to use your own understanding to make sense of a situation that is being run by human nature which really can’t be understood.

You may or may not be able to get them to stop. You could confront them verbally and ask them to leave you alone, which in my experience leads to more teasing. You could confront them with violence like a gun (aka Columbine) which would be sad for you and them. You could ignore them giving them no reaction at all, which could cause them to get bored with teasing someone who doesn’t have a reaction.

But you must learn that what most people in the world care about in the world are themselves. They want to feel big, important, powerful, intelligent and beautiful. And they will do anything to feel that way, usually at the expense of someone else’s feelings.

I’ve seen people that will put others down for what they wear, how they look, what they believe, political affiliation, social affiliations, and their favorite sports teams. The people doing this are supposedly intelligent adults who don’t need outside affirmation.

You will have to learn what situations you need to stand up and fight for and which ones need to be ignored. It took me way too long to learn this and I hope you will be able to learn to cope with bullies and indifferent people. Because you can still live a wonderful life even with bullies in the world as long as you don’t let them control you. Sometimes you just have to let things go and not lean on your own understanding.

[Jikanu]

No offense Jik, but you remind me of Rod and Todd Flanders from the Simpsons. ;P

none taken, but trust me, I'm not usually like this irl. usually, if I'm in a situation I'm comfortable in I'm more sarcastic/random and stuff

All apologies if i've come off that way x.x

No, I'm saying, that you feel dealing with jerk is a sort of "low" in life. It isn't. It's the terra-firma. If you meet someone who's intelligent, coherent, and makes a good friend, then you're on a mountain. Something worse than jerks, is a ditch.

hm... that makes sense... so i should stop viewing it as something crappy and just look at it as something that happens normally?

Go get some friends...

I don't usually brood over death or what comes after death or the declining world unless I'm alone and depressed or something. When I'm with friends, I'm always happy and laughing and making jokes. xD So... if you don't think you have the right attitude to get over what they did to you, at least try to divert yourself from thinking about it.
If your friends don't make you feel happier, well, I don't have much more to offer. ._.

If I had been in a situation like that with one of my close friends, we would've started plotting against everyone LOL. My friend has a very creative mind, and soon enough our make-believe scenarious would fly us off and we'd forget all about what happened~ =o=

i have friends, but the problem is the subject rarely comes up... i'll try bringing it up today and see what happens XD

[Vasu]

hm... that makes sense... so i should stop viewing it as something crappy and just look at it as something that happens normally?

Yeah...sort of like "get used to it" but not exactly.