I know what you mean blaaah. I've had a few people accusing me of ignoring them when I've just been in guild or party chat and missed stuff they said to me in whispers or normal chat.
I can miss up to 2-3 hours of whispers at a time because of this since i always forget to switch back to normal chat. I end up replying 1-2 hours too late when they've gone afk or logged
