Valentines. - Page 2

**Spirit** · 01-31-2008, 09:11 PM

Originally Posted by mikey3536

@yosei, i will find a friend but
one of my best friends is dating the girl i really like...
and she chose him over me because igo to a different school :rolleye:

Then she is not worth it. Seriuosly. If she doesn't want to be with you, simply because of a school difference, then she is not your one person.

**viasta** · 01-31-2008, 09:14 PM

nuuuooo!
Valentine is evil
the girl I like rejected me for a dance..she said she's going by herself

**MikeyG** · 01-31-2008, 09:22 PM

lol thanks for the nice words spirit,
many ppl tell me shes not worth it and what not,
but i cant stop liking her

**Spirit** · 01-31-2008, 09:54 PM

Originally Posted by mikey3536

lol thanks for the nice words spirit,
many ppl tell me shes not worth it and what not,
but i cant stop liking her

Well, you cannot change your feelings. Feelings are something that we actually have no control over. But, just know, that when the right one comes along, it will not matter even if you lived in a different state. The two of you would find a way to make it work. Love conquers all, but only true love.

**Lady-Loki** · 01-31-2008, 09:54 PM

Okay, here’s the thing – if you sit and wait for someone who doesn’t want to be with you there is a good chance you will overlook someone who does want to be with you. And you didn’t know they wanted to be with you because you were too focused on the person who doesn’t want to be with you.

Even if the person who doesn’t choose to be with you were to break up with your friend and decide to be with you, in the back of your mind lurks that knowledge that you were second and it will cause you to subconsciously do or say things that would probably jeopardize the relationship.

In the end you lost time wishing for that person, used valuable time with that person progressing through a doomed relationship and lost time mourning the end of that relationship. Damn lotta time lost there.

Now, on the other hand, if you make yourself accept that that person chose someone else and you open your head, heart, eyes and mind to the other potential relationships you can prevent the lost time, hurt emotions and possibly prevent that person who does want to be with you from going through the same thing you are going through.

Think about opening your head, heart, eyes and mind to the other potential relationships and just for the pure pleasure of it go out and buy a couple dozen fresh flowers – they don’t have to be fancy expensive flowers, lots of grocery stores carry mixed bunches relatively cheap – anyway, buy a couple dozen the day before Valentines Day and clean the stems so they are free of leaves and debris. On Valentines Day take them to school and randomly give one flower each to as many girls as you have flowers. Don’t plan who gets a flower and don’t pick & choose, just be as random as possible. This should make not only all those girls happy but you also just for the random act of giving out flowers.

There, now instead of dreading Valentines Day you have a purpose and goal.

GO FORTH MY LITTLE CUPID!

**Rightclaw** · 01-31-2008, 09:55 PM

**Blaaaaaaaah** · 02-01-2008, 01:20 AM

o:

- Stares at Loki in awe -

**A_Forever** · 02-01-2008, 01:24 AM

I stared at her post in awe xD!!

**Ivramire** · 02-01-2008, 01:25 AM

someone needs to placard that. o.o

**Hessah** · 02-01-2008, 01:35 AM

Originally Posted by Blaaaaaaaah

o:

- Stares at Loki in awe -

-have the exact same reaction as kt-

Well! I rejected Kev on valentines day XD
(Him: Will you be my valentine?
Me: WHAT?! r u serious?

LOL)

And we end up going out 3 weeks after that keke

Not telling guys to be pushy and keep asking a girl out even if they said no...

but 1 no, doesnt mean it'll always be a no... the girl could be just Shy...