[Serious] Needing Help on my Addiction

[Fr0Z3nWind]

i dont have much friends around
and my classmates just take the easy way out which happens to be copying my homework
i get isolated in school
and i'm 16 this year
taking N lvls and O lvls next year
i didnt want to talk to any adults as i didnt want to be worried about me
for the reason i'm trying to be perfect is not really sure...
i just keep telling myself to be better, and even if i improve, i'll say it's not enough...
and someone just told me i'm emo-ing -_-
and i was like huh? that's emo?

time to get off the comp
homeworks are queueing up

[Blaaaaaaaah]

i dont have much friends around
and my classmates just take the easy way out which happens to be copying my homework
i get isolated in school
and i'm 16 this year
taking N lvls and O lvls next year
i didnt want to talk to any adults as i didnt want to be worried about me
for the reason i'm trying to be perfect is not really sure...
i just keep telling myself to be better, and even if i improve, i'll say it's not enough...
and someone just told me i'm emo-ing -_-
and i was like huh? that's emo?

I think you should talk to your parents. Keeping it all in to yourself really won't help your situation, if you want to find a way to cope properly. School counsellors are there for a reason. Although I've never talked to one before, I heard they do help.

As for your friends copying your homework, you will need to find a way to say no. I know it's hard to say no without them disliking you for it, but hey, they'll have to get used to it. I don't like my friends copying off me either. I sometimes let them copy, I make sure that it doesn't happen all the time.

[kurten99]

im freakin 16 years old in college and it sucks ass i wish my highschool days wer longer cause the work they give us here is also stressing me out and my prelims exams are next week !! ahh im studying while browsing the net ...but im naturally laid back so i always find tym for games and rest

[a.L]

Getting that much homework is crazy. I mean, if you don't even have time to do leisure activities, there is something wrong with your teachers.

[Enraya]

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Are you exaggerating when you say people copy your work?

[Yami]

I would talk to my parents about this, or maybe a school couselor. It is not okay that you're suffering like this from the school work.

And like others have said before me, you do not have to be perfect. Nobody is, and nobody will be. You'll only be putting yourself under (too) much stress to try and be perfect. Everyone has flaws, and there is nothing wrong with that.

I dunno if you're just trying to pass or try getting the highest grade possible. If it's the latter, take a step back and go for passing it.

[iDerrick]

I think you really need to vent your anger/stress/frustrations on something. You'll feel better afterwards. Try going bowling, play some tennis or baseball, go paintballing. Put all that anger into a ball and fire away!

[Yosei]

Hurting yourself never helps you. It just adds scars and more physical pain. Maybe you should seek professional help, cuz quite honestly.. as you get older, stress just gets worse, you just need to learn how to take it on, and handle it. No offense but I have little sympathy for people who resort to stuff like cutting themselves and suicide as a way to get out of stuff, my reasons I will keep to myself because I've pissed off a lot of people in the past for it.
I know how you feel, I developed panic anxiety around the end of my Junior year in High School and I still have it. I had a lot of stuff on my plate.. I had been screwed over in a lot of classes, I was babysitting my sisters kids when I wasn't in school, I rarely had time to do homework, I had to do it in the mornings or stay in the library after school, I was running 2 clubs at school, I wanted to apply to my college of choice, which I ultimately got screwed over with, but at the same time, I was being pressured to move to Michigan with my parents, away from my goals, and do what my parents wanted and needed.
But, not once did I ever resort to or think of something drastic like phsyically mutilating myself. I suggest you try to work out some system, and get some professional help, or even go to a councilor at school. Thats what I did a lot.. my councilor at school would let me go to a meeting room there and just cry til I was ready to go back to class.
Sometimes..(I suggest it, but don't abuse it) I'd just skip class, if I was desperate enough. Like.. one of my teachers would give us projects and 3 days to do it.. I'd skip his next class, go to my friends aunts house with her, and work on my stuff then.

[viasta]

Ok, school work, manage your time well. Here's my guide thingy, hope this might help you or anyone else with stress problems with homework.

with stress problems with homework. I made this because it helped my older bro, others, and I when I get stress.

1. Stay after school a bit and ask your teachers about your homework, they will help you answer them. If your teachers don't help you, they are weird~_~+, teachers are suppose to help students.

2. Once return home, take a nice shower. Yep, a nice shower does work , gets rid of some stress somehow, it worked for me, my older brother, and many of my friends, even some of my teachers said this way works.

3. After shower, dry yourself up, then you should start doing your homework. If you are still feeling a bit stressed, drink something hot, not coffee though, I think coffee makes your too hyper :/, something hot like hot milk or tea.

4. Drinking something hot while doing your homework helped me doing it easier somehow.

5. If you are still stress, take a nap, then do your homework.

6. Never not do any homework, they'll stack up and make your more stressful, do the ones that's due earliest.

7. Sleep early, like at 10:00 PM, 10:30 PM, 11:00 PM latest. Make sure to get full 8 hour of sleep.

8. Don't play games, like if you lose, you'll get more stress and want to kill someone. Experienced it, I threw my old xbox controller out the window because someone killed my 20+ killing spree in Halo2 in xbox live .

[kurten99]

There is one thing you could do it helped me alot and lessened my workload

I'd ask my classmates to hold some kind of "group study" but in my case
homework.we would go to someones place..usually mine -_-...and we would seperate the work we did only if the homework they gave is too many then we would do stuff like this and if we couldnt meet we would just plan and seperate the homework and do it in our own homes and by the next day we would meet early to explain the assigntment to one another

it helped me alot and relieved alot of stress