Hello everyone, long time no see!

[Yosei]

Nobody (including your parents!) should judge you for wanting your own kids. I do not know what life circumstances led your sister to this path, but your decision not to have kids but to adopt instead sounds a bit like condemning yourself for her faults.

I'm not condemning myself at all. And no one is judging me. And if they are, I really don't care. I've just seen what good it can do. I feel like the need to have your own biological child (other than the experience of pregnancy, childbirth, etc) is an outdated idea based on family's obsession with lineage and legacy which isn't as necessary nowadays. Nothing wrong with it, obviously. But whether they're a child you conceived or adopted is not important to me. Both have their pros and cons.

[lamchopz]

He's 2 now. Time flies! Even though some days feels sooo long...

I'm enjoying these moments but damn, I wish she would find a good job, get married, move out and support us during our retirement already!

[Hessah]

I'm enjoying these moments but damn, I wish she would find a good job, get married, move out and support us during our retirement already!

HAHAAH Children are investments

[Blaaaaaaaah]

I think I'ma pass on kids. I'm approaching 30 and I still don't feel ready.

Ditto ditto. I remember when I was at uni, I was like, right gotta have kids before 30 because the chances of complications increase exponentially after 30..

Now I'm just.. nuh uh. not yet.

But for me it's the responsibility that is daunting hahahaaha