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I don't know what course you're aiming for but you said that both schools offer the same course, so I'll assume you know what you want to do and where you want to be several years from now, be it teacher, doctor, lawyer, engineer, doesn't really matter. I just want to make clear to you before you make this decision that which school you go to won't drastically affect where you'll end up in the long term. If both courses offered at the schools are the same, it won't make much of a difference where you end up in the industry. But, because one school is more prestigous than the other, you'll probably end up higher in that particular industry's ladder when you first apply for that job.
Let's say two people are applying to become teachers. One studied in a more prestigious school than the other prospective teacher. The person who attended the more prestigious school would have a definite advantage over the other person when applying for the job. However in reality, a lot of other things factor into it, such as how well your interview goes, prior experience (usually obtained from third or fourth year of the course), commitment to the job and passion. I suppose what I'm trying to say is, even though a school is reputed to be great, it won't make a huge difference in the end. Getting a diploma from the school with the better reputation is definitely a plus, and will affect where you are when you start your job. But hard work, passion and perseverance will be what really drives your career. If you really think in your heart it'll be a lot more difficult to study in the more prestigious school, for you, your family and your girlfriend, then I think you should give it a pass. It isn't something that regrettable for most jobs, believe me.
However, if you truly believe it'll be worthwhile to go through that sort of hardship (picking the "better" school), I gotta respect that too. It's true that some relationships can be destroyed because of distance, but it's also true that some grow stronger through it. You'll be able to understand your girlfriend and your relationship in a different context, go through hardships most relationships don't face, and if you both stick through those difficult years you'll be able to appreciate your relationship that bit more. I'd say seeing your girlfriend every two months is a difficult thing to work through. As you'll both be in a completely separate setting with a separate group of people, things could gradually change in your relationship (for better or worse) without either of you realising it or expecting it. Things happen, that is life.
I can see it's a tough choice for you, but I think what it really comes down to is whether or not you want to be in that prestigous school, and whether you think it'll truly make your future any easier. Personally, I'd pick the lower end school. I don't need much in my life, so a course teaching me the essentials that landed me my dream job (teaching) is adequate, and I don't think I'd be capable of distancing myself from my girlfriend like that. I know with technology these days communication isn't difficult, but nothing really beats sitting down or cuddling up with your loved one and just talking with them in real life.
Spirit's got a good suggestion too, I mean why not try the prestigous school out for a year and see how things go for you. Transferring schools is always a possibility, particularly transferring from a higher end school to a lower end one.
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