Is this fair!? - Page 2

**Hraesvelg** · 01-08-2010, 07:21 PM

I guess it's never too early to learn that life is anything but fair.

**A_Forever** · 01-08-2010, 09:38 PM

lulz

I agree with my brother. There was no breaking up fights with my 3rd oldest brother and I. Not unless Sec and the oldest wanted to hit us a few times to make us stop. That just caused them to get the belt ;o

Honestly, older siblings shouldn't have a responsibility to stop such things as immature fights. Sure, if the other kid is going to do something that could kill/hurt him/herself and others.. then they should intervene. Otherwise, not their problem. I know if I had been an older sibling, I would not waste my time breaking up a stupid argument.. because then you ARE involved and when it comes time for parents to punish people, you definitely can't talk your way out.

Fr0Z3nWind · 01-08-2010, 09:43 PM

Somehow in my family, me and my sister never really fought. Except once where we had only one computer, she and I both needed to rush a project. Anyway sometimes parents are doing the immatured quarrels too.
Just recently they had a little squabble about working and going for badminton matches. One complained that he went on the other day, its only right she gets to go too for a day. But he wanted her to work and blah blah blah.
Geez. That made my mum sit outside the door waiting for my dad to leave the house first before coming back the other day.

At dinner, my sister said to me childish. I nodded. LOL

**Sero** · 01-09-2010, 08:11 AM

that sounds messed up.

what ever happened to sibling love? I know I love mine

**secbro20** · 01-09-2010, 04:51 PM

Originally Posted by Serendira

that sounds messed up.

what ever happened to sibling love? I know I love mine

Its not that you don't love your siblings, but siblings fight, at least we did in my family. Doesn't mean we don't love each other.

**A_Forever** · 01-09-2010, 05:20 PM

If siblings still act like that when they are older, thats when you need to start telling them to grow up.

I am 15 and my brothers are 18-21. We don't really fight anymore. Not like we used to. Its more verbal than physical now.. and not really that often. I think a lot of the time its just built up stress/anger and we accidentally let it out on each other.

We still love each other though. I love my brothers a lot <3

**Hraesvelg** · 01-09-2010, 06:09 PM

Yeah, all siblings fight. Hell, I've got about 13 years on my sister and she still used to take a swing from time to time. But woe betide anyone that messes with her...

**MikeyG** · 01-09-2010, 07:58 PM

Originally Posted by secbro19

I disagree. Not his fault his brothers were fighting and they should have been punished, and not his job to keep them from fighting.

The whole idea that older siblings are supposed to be more like "parents" to younger ones is dumb. If I had tried to break up this argument in my house, my younger siblings would have just said "Your not mom/dad and your not the boss." Which is completely true.

Yeah but you can tell them to shut the fuck up and settle down.

**Hraesvelg** · 01-09-2010, 08:12 PM

Which usually ends with the previously said result of "You're not my momma..." which then leads to fisticuffs. Every family dynamic is different.

**MikeyG** · 01-09-2010, 09:53 PM

Only children ftw.

I'm really close with my three cousins though
and could go there whenever I feel, and still can stumble drunk
to their house and let myself in, went on multiple holidays with them ... siblings I could choose when to see pretty much.