Help on fighter stats and skill point distributtion.

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Well if you're still below Lv20... it wouldn't hurt to start over really.

And if you're tanking you should be using a shield and one hand sword. Unless you've got a LOT of money to spare on +9 equipment and charms/extenders you are not going to be tanking with anything other than those.

2H weapons are for those who want to deal damage, not defend.