You know what?

[Hessah]

By your level, almost everyone is charmed, extended... that's just the way it is now XD coz the EXP that you need is rediculous! and people cant afford to be squishy and die too much...

Some also blame it on the way Outspark developed the game, that you cant go without charm/extenders....

Were you partying with a group of people? Because your skill built is so powerful you probably draw aggro faster than those that's more charmed up..

Try wait 2 sec before casting ur skills...

Did this when I partied with Blah, I have more defence, but she draws aggro so much more that all the mobs went on her so it was kinda pointless for me to have more defence LOL so she waited and let me cast my skills before she cast hers...