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I think I'll chime in one last time and leave this thread because the following is all I have to say about this matter.
To derail this thread a bit:
Time is the fourth dimension in 4D geometry. When we mention 3D, the 3 dimensions only involve "spatial", not "temporal" (which effects "movement over time"). So by describing an object in, say, an xyz coordinate system, you are only specifying where it is, not how and where it's moving. By including the time component in the description, you explicitly show its course of movement around the xyz coordinates over time. Some clinics now advertise that mothers-to-be can see their kids in 4D (it's 3D + time).
As such, if you have zero time or time is not described, you don't have movement and hence, anything that occurs afterward (namely, interaction with the environment).
Therefore, it is reasonable to think of "nothingness" before the Big Bang because time was thought to be at zero, and so nothing happened. Again, that's just maths. You may question how time started to tick, how "nothingness" came about, etc. but bear in mind that's not something we fully understand yet and at best, these are still speculative.
As for the expansion of the universe, we can mathematically show that it is most likely the case by using Einstein's theory of general relativity. So observations (whose accuracy, interestingly, will be improved with the latest equipment which reduces a lot of errors and assumptions made) and the maths (using general relativity, if it is true) underpin our belief to this date that the universe is currently expanding.
Back on topic:
"Infinity" is an integral part of mathematics and everything that employs maths (honestly, that's almost everything).
It is, to me, also commonsense to have the concept of "infinite": if we think of larger and larger without any imposed constraint, how large will it get? Of course it can't be measured because it's allowed to enlarge forever so it will be come extremely large (just like when you add 1000 to infinity, you get back infinity but you can't treat infinity as a number because you'll get the paradox* below). Hence, to describe that "extremely large", infinity is needed. I don't use "immeasurably large" or "immeasurably small" because it is subjected to scientific advances. For instance, anything that is in the order of 10^(-40), say, is immeasurably small to us because we don't have the equipment to do so.
*The paradox: let D be the infinity. We say that adding 1000 to infinity still gives infinity so mathematically, if infinity is some D, we have:
D + 1000 = D
or 1000 = 0 (by eliminating D on both sides).
That is nonsese. So infinity (called D here) is not a finite mathematical identity and so by putting it as a numerical term in an equation just doesn't make sense (you have to use limits instead)
Perhaps we live in a low energy universe, some of the things we are curious about can't be observed. For example, the two distinct forces in our world (weak force and electromagnetism), when evaluated mathematically in a higher energy universe, become one single force. This led particle physicists to believe that if we get the right ingredients (new and better theories, new discoveries?), the four fundamental forces of nature (weak force, strong force, electromagnetism and gravity) may become one at high energies as well (this is why String Theory and the like came to life as our latest effort to create a Grand Unification Theory).
So you don't have to believe in infinity because commonsense tells you it has to be there (recall "larger and larger without limit") but in terms of observation, it's just something we can't do in our limited lifespan or at least not with the current advancement anyway.
The future is an interesting destination for hopes and dreams, and if it does survive the madness and extreme stupidity of our time, things will become clearer for humankind.
EDIT: I hate typos =.=
Although this image refers to a different set of 4D system (where all four dimensions are spatial), it looks cool so I just post it here
