[Serious] Needing Help on my Addiction

[Enraya]

If this is a joke, >___> If this isn't, then D= Kurten, please don't be so rude ...

But do try finding a hobby? Something you're good at, something that you want to do. Something that'll make you like yourself =) I know that I'm really easy to please, so I try to get some fun stuff on my mind like playing Fiesta everyday and then do my homework so I can get good grades and also feel nice. I don't have much to relate to your experience, so I can't say much. But please stop hurting yourself if you are. =D

And kurten, please don't double post.

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And I actually find the forums a nice place to hang out. Nobody knows who I am and what I do, so it's a cool break for being constantly under judgement. Don't be afraid to vent out your anger. Kurten was being a little rude.
Stay maybe on forums, find a group that you like to talk to ^^ Or talk to your guildies about random stuff, lol. It just gets stress off your mind >__>

[Fr0Z3nWind]

i dont have a time to get a hobby
it's work work work that i'm trying to keep up with
i barely can get sleep through the nights
I'm have a major exam at september this year and teachers' are stressing us so we can do it well
i need to score a 70 for 3 subjects, my best 3 subjects
and Next year i need to pass everything
and i'm trying hard but i just keep failing my chinese!!!

I feel slightly better mini-flaming at him
note the slightly
i'm so busy now i'm eating my meals while reading my textbooks or doing work
i cannot find any rest time except during 2am~6am everynight
6am = wake up and i rush off for school till 5pm
i dont even have time for breakfast

[Enraya]

D= Well, no wonder that you're getting frustrated.
Is there absolutely NOTHING you can cut to give yourself some slack? ANYTHING at all!? Something useless, something junk.

[kurten99]

Sorry bout that i just wasnt sure about this if it was a joke

So i kinda messed around with my reply Plus you didnt say that you had tons of course works to do

For i also have a lot to do And I dont play Fiesta always leh
Are you a senoir (lvl in college ) im freakin 16 years old in college and it sucks ass i wish my highschool days wer longer cause the work they give us here is also stressing me out and my prelims exams are next week !! ahh im studying while browsing the net ...but im naturally laid back so i always find tym for games and rest

[Blaaaaaaaah]

=/

How old are you, Frozen? Just trying to get the idea what your school's work load should be. How are you friends managing with school work? Are they stressed like you?

Why do you try to be perfect? There is no need to be perfect, you should really just try your best, and do the best you can. Teachers often stress you to freak you out, just so that the people who don't work hard will work harder. Sometimes it's probably not as hard as teachers make it sound to be. I mean, if they really do mean it, then half the year should be failing, right? And that doesn't happen, right?

Have you tried talking to your parents? What do they say? Or perhaps, talk to a teacher you like, or a school counsellor. Friends are great to turn to, but sometimes, with things related to school work, someone older (or someone not in the same situation as you) may help you out more.

[Enraya]

You don't have to excel in every single thing you do.
If you're really stressed, ditch the unimportant things and focus on the important things.
And then fill the unimportant thing spot with just time to relax or sleep .____.

[Yosei]

Hurting yourself never helps you. It just adds scars and more physical pain. Maybe you should seek professional help, cuz quite honestly.. as you get older, stress just gets worse, you just need to learn how to take it on, and handle it. No offense but I have little sympathy for people who resort to stuff like cutting themselves and suicide as a way to get out of stuff, my reasons I will keep to myself because I've pissed off a lot of people in the past for it.
I know how you feel, I developed panic anxiety around the end of my Junior year in High School and I still have it. I had a lot of stuff on my plate.. I had been screwed over in a lot of classes, I was babysitting my sisters kids when I wasn't in school, I rarely had time to do homework, I had to do it in the mornings or stay in the library after school, I was running 2 clubs at school, I wanted to apply to my college of choice, which I ultimately got screwed over with, but at the same time, I was being pressured to move to Michigan with my parents, away from my goals, and do what my parents wanted and needed.
But, not once did I ever resort to or think of something drastic like phsyically mutilating myself. I suggest you try to work out some system, and get some professional help, or even go to a councilor at school. Thats what I did a lot.. my councilor at school would let me go to a meeting room there and just cry til I was ready to go back to class.
Sometimes..(I suggest it, but don't abuse it) I'd just skip class, if I was desperate enough. Like.. one of my teachers would give us projects and 3 days to do it.. I'd skip his next class, go to my friends aunts house with her, and work on my stuff then.

[viasta]

Ok, school work, manage your time well. Here's my guide thingy, hope this might help you or anyone else with stress problems with homework.

with stress problems with homework. I made this because it helped my older bro, others, and I when I get stress.

1. Stay after school a bit and ask your teachers about your homework, they will help you answer them. If your teachers don't help you, they are weird~_~+, teachers are suppose to help students.

2. Once return home, take a nice shower. Yep, a nice shower does work , gets rid of some stress somehow, it worked for me, my older brother, and many of my friends, even some of my teachers said this way works.

3. After shower, dry yourself up, then you should start doing your homework. If you are still feeling a bit stressed, drink something hot, not coffee though, I think coffee makes your too hyper :/, something hot like hot milk or tea.

4. Drinking something hot while doing your homework helped me doing it easier somehow.

5. If you are still stress, take a nap, then do your homework.

6. Never not do any homework, they'll stack up and make your more stressful, do the ones that's due earliest.

7. Sleep early, like at 10:00 PM, 10:30 PM, 11:00 PM latest. Make sure to get full 8 hour of sleep.

8. Don't play games, like if you lose, you'll get more stress and want to kill someone. Experienced it, I threw my old xbox controller out the window because someone killed my 20+ killing spree in Halo2 in xbox live .

[kurten99]

There is one thing you could do it helped me alot and lessened my workload

I'd ask my classmates to hold some kind of "group study" but in my case
homework.we would go to someones place..usually mine -_-...and we would seperate the work we did only if the homework they gave is too many then we would do stuff like this and if we couldnt meet we would just plan and seperate the homework and do it in our own homes and by the next day we would meet early to explain the assigntment to one another

it helped me alot and relieved alot of stress

[Fr0Z3nWind]

i dont have much friends around
and my classmates just take the easy way out which happens to be copying my homework
i get isolated in school
and i'm 16 this year
taking N lvls and O lvls next year
i didnt want to talk to any adults as i didnt want to be worried about me
for the reason i'm trying to be perfect is not really sure...
i just keep telling myself to be better, and even if i improve, i'll say it's not enough...
and someone just told me i'm emo-ing -_-
and i was like huh? that's emo?

time to get off the comp
homeworks are queueing up