OK someone help me out, im somewhat depressed.

**Yosei** · 09-17-2007, 03:35 AM

The majority of people who SAY they're going to kill themselves, or hint to it, like "I might as well be dead." etc.. are less likely to do it. They just want to either make people feel bad, get attention, or reassure themself that people care.
Nothing here is your fault ^^ You got a tip that she might be cheating on you. And you talked her about it... instead of ignoring it and going into denial, but you didn't explode like a mother on Maury whose just found out the dude isn't her babies daddy.
You shouldn't feel bad, but if the thing with the friend sounds suspicious in any way, I'd look into it. I've had friends in the past who've said stuff out of no where just to start drama.
Just talk to her and make sure she's okay though.

Aquenzu · 09-17-2007, 03:39 AM

Yea ima talk to her at school tomorrow. Hopefully she is ok.

Faruiel · 09-28-2007, 05:02 AM

Yeah, I think talking to her would be the best thing. I know I'm kind of late on this and you might not get to read this until much later, but what Yosei said is right. She just probably feels just as upset as you do. The advices that everyone else gave are great as well. Get the proof before you call it out. This was a misunderstanding so once you can explain that to her then things should start taking a turn for the better. It might even be a good idea not to mention names since then she might either think you're keeping tabs on her and don't trust her ( and yes trust is a really big thing in a lasting relationship ) or that you would believe so and so over how well you know her ( but if you do suspect something then you should be on guard and ask your friends if they know something ) or it might cause a new problem thus bringing more drama into your life. ;x I wish the best of luck for you.

**O-mie** · 09-28-2007, 05:00 PM

I agree with Yosei. If somebody is going to commit suicide, they don't tell people about it - they do it. Tell your gf to stop being so emo. x_X People make mistakes, she should realize this.

Zemus · 09-30-2007, 07:59 PM

Just call her dude. XD

If anything, she probably wants to just talk to you. Looking for attention you know?

**Hessah** · 10-02-2007, 06:31 AM

so how's it all going Aquenzu??

almost 4got that it all happened?

Aquenzu · 10-02-2007, 08:28 PM

Originally Posted by Hessah

so how's it all going Aquenzu??

almost 4got that it all happened?

Were on a no talk basis, honestly im wondering why the hell she is tripping over this crap. I don't know why I was worried over it all. Were prolly gonna break up.