rough

[MikeyG]

Being cheated on because someone is do drunk to function is really rough..

[Loveless]

That sucks. Though in my opinion that's a sorry excuse but that's just me. I give no seconds chances to such behaviour.

[Dynamics]

Don't know what to say if it's you being cheated on mate, cause that is indeed real rough.

I'm a firm believer that being drunk is a horrible excuse for cheating.

[MikeyG]

It happened like this. I absolutly can't stand kathleens friends so
she wanted to go to a party with them I said fine, I had a party to go to as well. So later on 4 of my buddies come to this party and pull me aside and tell me they were jsut at this other party, and my girlfriend is basically passed out on the couch and some fucking tool is kissing her. I went back and smashed the kid and destroyed the persons house with his body... but its just not satisfying enough cause I know its not all his fault. Im just to confused as to what to do.

[lamchopz]

i'm not sure if you're the talking type of guy but discussing this with your girlfriend is a good start (shows you have patience and are willing to listen, which gives her the sort of confidence to spill things out).

if she hasn't done anything more than just a kiss, it can still be fixed.

[Dynamics]

If she was literally passed out on the couch, I think it's safe to say she was taken advantage of. Though I think it was pretty irresponsible of her to get drunk or at least her friends for not watching the situation. Something's just not right with that scene if you know what I meant mate.

I also agree with lam that discussing this with your girlfriend is the best start. I also think it's tough to recover from something like that, because it's really a punch from the dark. Hopefully talking with your girlfriend will re-assure you more, or at least give you the answers for the questions you're thinking about.

Seriously hope things get better and not worse from this point for your sake D:

[Vasu]

Damn...best of luck to ya...