Getting Stalked

Seems I have the opposite problem of Kaini - I don't want to get married on my characters. Sure, the buffs and teleport would be helpful at times, but I tend to play solo and only party when the mood hits or is needed to succeed (KQ, DT, etc.) About 7 months ago, my main Helion65 was getting pressure from an archer friend to marry, to the point that I dropped her as a friend and changed times that I played. I even grinded in obscure places to avoid her, and even then she would find me. She even started playing during the afternoon here, which was way out of her normal times since SHE LIVES IN INDIA. Finally, after a few months she gave up.
Well, last night, as I was grinding my last few % to level 94, a mage comes up and starts the exact same behavior, begging me to marry her right then, following me around to different maps, to the point that I logged off for 10 hours and finished my leveling when I got up. WTF??????? Sad thing is, from the actions, time of day, and dialect in whispers, I think it is the same person. AAARRRRGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!