Yup... so in a nutshell. If she distances herself, whether she is pulling chick-jedi mind tricks, or not, its best to keep distance so things can take their course. If the guy wants to be with that one girl and he loves her, nothing should be stopping him, but if a friend decides to distance themself over it, then he shouldn't let it get to him, it wasn't his fault, it was the friends choice.
If she has feelings for him, which from what I've heard, it seems like she does. She should just be honest. Its better to know then to spend a life time wondering what if. I've taken that plunge plenty of times, so far I've been lucky, its never turned out for the worse.
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