[NotMyWay]

I believe monsters would attack the one who dealt the most damage to them, or who healed the most. However, fighters can use the abilities 'snearing kick' and 'mock' to direct the attention to themselves instead, but dont forget that some fighters may not have those abilities, or they may be cooling down.

also, if any monster is stunned, he may change target unless he is kicked or mocked again.

and u dont have to call urself stupid...