Wow, Loki, reading your post made me watery eyed. >:
I think this is why my lecturer kept saying "People keep thinking pregnancy is something that just happens, something they take granted of... and they are terribly wrong". There are so many little things that can happen that will make a pregnancy go wrong, yet it's amazing how most women get to go through a pregnancy smoothly. And after knowing this, it makes the decision even harder to make.
I do, however, agree that it's hard to decide what you are going to do until you've faced the situation, and even then it would be hard.
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