That's a very difficult question. I don't think anybody really knows how they would handle a situation like that until they're actually faced with it, though. It would also depend heavily on your partner's views, I think. I hope the woman would consider the man's views on it as well even if it is her choice in the end.
I think if it was wholly for me to decide I would be as cold and logical about it as possible (I'm all too good at being that way). The biggest factor would be whether or not you're in a place in your own life that makes you capable of handling such a hard path, but since you said I'm financially and emotionally well off, (ah fantasy is nice), then I think I would want to try to do as much as possible for the child.
-OT 200th post and it was serious. O_o no more serious 'til 400 now.
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