Go to the school. If she's as steadfast and faithful as you report she is, she'll understand that you're investing in both of your futures and can put up with a few years of semi-seperation.
If not, then she's probably more selfish than you realize, which will come back to bite you in the ass later.
Then, if things don't work out...tons of college ass miles away from where people know you. It'll all work out.
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