There's nothing at all wrong with seeking a purely physical relationship as long as you're honest about it and don't lead the poor girl on just to use her. If both parties are looking for that, then great. I'd go for that if I could, but I feel guilty about it.
I'm not good at relationships either though, I always get to a point where I just don't want to bother with them anymore. Maybe all the women I've been with are just the clingy type, but I think I'm just easily bored with people to be brutally honest. So yeah, I'm too selfish for a relationship and too reserved for one night stands... aint that bitch?
As far as hair goes, I come from a place where they look atchya funny if you shave anything but your face, but I'll do maintenance downstairs on occasion. Most women I've encountered prefer clean-shaven faces though, generally if I'm with one I have to shave, when I'm not and not looking I go all mountain man looking. Currently, I have a heavy beard.
