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My parents never have been really protective. They're really open.
Umm.. I can do just about anything when it comes to my dad. He treats and talks to me like I'm already an adult. o-o
My mom will.. hover now and then. She has snooped in my room a few times(And I've learned my lesson. Desk drawer = bad place to have certain things.) But.. I pretty much do whatever, whenever.
Its not like I'm not responsible though. I can take care of myself and others. I will do things around the house without being told to. Help out when I can. I'm not some wild child. I think that because my parents were so open while they were together(Didn't control my brothers and I.. didn't tell us what we had to do or believe) that my brothers and I really learned a lot. We decided what was wrong and right. Of course, its not like we raised ourselves but still. xD
Anyways.. this is getting a bit long.
About your mom, you really need to talk to her about it. Ask her why she is so protective (or whatever she is). Once you know the reasons, then you can explain to her why this and that is okay and why you should start getting treated like an adult. (Because it sounds like you're 16+.. right? And its getting close to the point where she'll need to let go.. a lot.)
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