[Vasu]

Romantic love by deffinition a special love. It's one that you can only TRULY feel for one person. sure, you can get plenty of knockoffs of it, but true love is only between two people. And you asked for my deffinition. I gave it to you. and i know nothing than what i've found through personal experience. If you feel differently as does your partner, fine. but i believe true love can only be felt between two people.

Okay then I'll say just as simply the true love can exist between one person and two or more other people.

And do you not understand the concept of affection? the concept of feeling a special place in your heart for one person? trust me, i have no sexual desires, and i wont until marraige. It's a different feeling. if you've ever felt familial love, it's the feeling of closeness, of seeing yourself in a mirror, and resemblance, and unity; Romantic love is the love of an individual. it's full of discovery, and the joy of learning about the person; it's love of differences. it's indefinable yet also simple at the same time; Both make you want to protect those involved, but Romantic Love is far different from Familial Love.

You've said that familial love is the love caused by similarities, and romantic love is the one caused by differences. Why does that have to be? I could just as likely fall in love with a girl who also likes Iron Maiden, supports Liverpool FC, etc, because we are so similar, and seemingly "made for each other".

And I could just as easily love a cousin who I talk with and holds different opinions from mine, we could sit and have long talks. If he/she likes comedy movies where I might like action, we could show each other what we like, that is "discovery" too. The reasons you give aren't solid, because they could apply for either "kind" of love as I've shown.

And honestly, i cant make the description any more simple. you're the one who requested the examples. God can make a stone which he cant lift by using less of his strength, just as you can not lift a relatively light stone by exerting a slight amount of force. I cant make it any more simple.

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So there is something he cannot do, as you've said yourself, whether he makes it using "less strength" or "more strength", he is making a stone so heavy he cannot lift.