[Lady-Loki]

probably...I'm sorry loki..it's not what I meant...

No problem. I read it as you agreeing with what you said you had been told and I suspect a lot of other people had that same interpretation.

I have posted stuff that others took offense at, but generally I try to decide if my post would piss off a bunch of folks and if I think "yeah" then I try to rethink how to reword it. I generally reword some, but not as much if I feel a specific thread, post or person should be addressed by what I post.

That's one benefit of posted words, you think them, type them, read them and have a chance to re-evaluate before you let them reach others - unlike the spoken word that cannot be sucked back in once the words are uttered.

Just a little constructive comment to help you better win friends and influence people.