Yeah, I think talking to her would be the best thing. I know I'm kind of late on this and you might not get to read this until much later, but what Yosei said is right. She just probably feels just as upset as you do. The advices that everyone else gave are great as well. Get the proof before you call it out. This was a misunderstanding so once you can explain that to her then things should start taking a turn for the better. It might even be a good idea not to mention names since then she might either think you're keeping tabs on her and don't trust her ( and yes trust is a really big thing in a lasting relationship ) or that you would believe so and so over how well you know her ( but if you do suspect something then you should be on guard and ask your friends if they know something ) or it might cause a new problem thus bringing more drama into your life. ;x I wish the best of luck for you.
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