That is messed up not sad at all. KQs are about when people team up together to help for a common cause (which is usually the exp or items gained at the end). If no one helped that defeats the purpose of the kq therefore being messed up not really sad. But they could have passed if only if they used a heart
I give kudos to you for suiciding though b/c that is what I would have done to get revenge but I'm evil. I don't think they were trying to locate you if they respond to you.