Originally Posted by Alee
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...I fell out with a friend who constantly asked me to plvl him, I did help him loads but most of the time he wud be afk or chatting and it just felt like he was just leeching, and he wasn't reallly fun to be with...
Now, when I was in my lower lvls I partied with ppl at my own lvl, doing quests, etc etc. I mean, don't people want to enjoy the game? Rather than just grinding all the time? And yes I did have phases of just grinding, but I hardly ever ask for plvling, I didn't know many high lvls back then, and when I make friends with them, I don't constantly ask for plvling, I mean, I would feel like I'm bothering them or something, they could be doing their lv60+ quests. Like I would be now!! THank god for them putting lvl cappped zones!!
But anyway... I now ignore random people who asks me to plvl them.
If you're too nice, they will take advantage of you.
Hope I'm not the only one who feels like this.... please tell me if I'm a bad person LOL!
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Reading this thread again, I tried to cut out many things you said, but I seem to be not able to. So yeah...sorry for the gigantic quote, but I FEEL how you feel. When I was at my low level, I did the same. I didn't have any high-level friends - mostly lower for some reason :/ - I partied up with the people of similar levels, did quests, made friends etc etc. But from the time I became +lvl30, there were piles of people asking for plvl. And yeah, why not ask in full sentences?! "plvl plz" "plvl plzzzz" "PLZZZZ" <---super annoying. I mean, I have a limit too. I help to a certain extent that they don't just ADD me to friends (when all I did with them was just giving him exp, they would hardly even reply when questions were asked, or were complimented), and if they didn't keep on sending literally thousands of repetitive party invites - GEEZ!! Is it seriously that hard to level up by yourself? Enjoy the game, wtf is the point of just levelling up?!?!
Yeah...I guess the 'friends' who constantly ask for 'plvl' are not very good ones. In my life, I've tried so hard not to make any generalizations, but here, I must. >

If they really were friends, and not "friends", they would think for you, and not want to bother you or put much burden on your back, and not ask for things that they wouldn't want to be doing if they were asked the same. = selfish.
Happened to be twice today, two of my supposedly "friends" (whom I've added after a few talks :/ since I didn't feel like being rejective), kept on constantly sending me party invites, and asking "plvl me plz" ughh!!! HELLOO--