Originally Posted by Alee
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I was soloing junior archons one day in uruga for my quest and a Lv 3x Cleric came and asked to party me, I thought, oh yeah, she will be able to help heal me. But she kept going afk and then told me she had to go to school, but then went afk again for ages (so I thought WTH?? she's gone?! Leaving me to plvl her??) and because she was resting at the bridge (stupid place to rest) u will expect mobs going passed! So I left her messages like "I have to go", "come back now or I will leave u here" "sorry if u die" blah blah...
Ehh.. I left her there and never looked back!! LOL ... I am learning not to be so nice MUAHAHA
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for such reason i have a simple rule set:
-afking without reason : kick after 5min, spot saved for 30min
-afking with reason : kick after 10min, spot saved until he is back.
-logging out without reason : spot saved 30min
-loggin off, but said he comes back: spot saved until back (max 2hs)
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Originally Posted by nekineki
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this sounds soooo familiar........ *hovers mouse pointer over guildie's name, right clicks "Ban"* Oh crap. She's admin too >_>
I mean sheesh. She's a cleric, I'm an archer. I may be a few levels ahead of her (5 levels to be exact) but she makes it MY responsibility to power level her. She demands, yes, deamnds, to be in any 4x-6x guildie's party, fetch her, help her with her quest, let her borrow silvers, buy this for her because she doesn't have money at the moment. UBER CRAP!! I worked my ass off by grinding through levels, rarely ask my 7x mage friend (IRL friend, at that) to power level me, NEVER ask for silvers from anyone, loans doesnt work for me either because I might not be able to pay on time and such, the list goes on!
I don't mind helping but what ticked me off was when she said "Do your quests later, help me with mine first!!" and "Hurry up! What's taking you so long to get to me. Stop dilly dallying over there and help me!" . For the record I politely told her that I was on my way, on foot, finishing a few mobs along the way for a quest. I'm offering my help for free and all and she demands! DEMANDS!!
Bottomline (as I've posted on our guild's notice board): It is NEVER a highbie's responsibility to power level.
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Thats a typical kid of our times. Or in short a kid tyrant.
So must teach that little tyrant that it cant tyrannize u.
If she would do that to me, i would say i wont help her under that conditions. I love to help people, but i wont help because someone demands it!
Also when she demands to be lvled, tell her no. First nicely, and the more she insist the more u make it clear. Once i had to tell a kid over 20times a clear no, before he realised that nagging wont change me decision.
p.s: all i wrote hear my sound hard. But there are extrem cases. And in most cases being more nice would be better.