Question
 

after i get my spr to 25 and dex to 10 should i go end all the way or juggle str and end in 3:1 ..btw im a axe fighter.

You don't need that 10 dex. You shouldn't distribute your stats in so many directions. After 25 spirit, pick a stat based on what you want to do. Do not pick endurance if you aren't wielding a shield, because you won't benefit from the block bonus and the HP is negligible. Do not get dexterity because a power scroll is just as good.

Pretty much what he said BUt
-You could use the 10 dex but its not necessary. It helps alot because sometimes with the axe power scrolls dont cut it especially if your training in Higher level areas Such as Uruga or AEW. In pvp it'll help guaratee a hit

Yes and the dex will help a bit for your evasion as well. But will not really affect the amounts of misses on you during PvE.

That's why you get 1% aim + 1% crit earrings.