[Serious] Needing Help on my Addiction
 

I'm been feeling strange all these while
i can never get enough warmth anywhere, even being under the sun...
I also have an addiction to feeling pain
I keep wanting to feel pain, i want to hurt myself
I cant control myself anymore....
I'm forcing myself to do things....
I tried seeking advices from my friends and searching over the websites
I really do need help...
I'm trying to hurt myself all the time, and my friends sae i might end up cutting up my hands and even at the extend to suicide

.....normally i wouldnt reply to such things but ill screw your ass hard if this is a joke...Try getting a hobby to keep your mind and body busy and if you do find something you like keep going at it and soon enough youll forget it if that doesnt work find something more addictive..like Fiesta XD

oh and no wonder your avatar is the avatar the last airbender..it sucks ...if you watched that then no wonder youre like that XD :p

i gonna vend out on my anger right now on him
please avoid reading
U THINK I'M SO FREE TO JOKE AROUND?
i been so stressed lately by piles and piles of work
i cant get any sleep
i cant be perfect, and i'm trying hard to be
if you dont reply to such things den DONT, ur comments are rubbish
i'm not like some crazy nerd like u who sit infront of fiesta playing it as it is ur life
i dont even have time for fiesta anymore, at most i login to say hi to my guild and continue on my coursework and homework using the computer. go ahead and ask my guild, they rarely see me nowadays due to the heavy workload i'm getting from my school
even this is a MoS, you should also keep the habit of not double posting
and btw u watched it too! no wonder u're an ass like that

sorry for the big rant and i kept it to minimium vuglarites phew~
sorry i'm not anti-social, i'm just not user-friendly

i dont have a time to get a hobby
it's work work work that i'm trying to keep up with
i barely can get sleep through the nights
I'm have a major exam at september this year and teachers' are stressing us so we can do it well
i need to score a 70 for 3 subjects, my best 3 subjects
and Next year i need to pass everything
and i'm trying hard but i just keep failing my chinese!!!

I feel slightly better mini-flaming at him
note the slightly
i'm so busy now i'm eating my meals while reading my textbooks or doing work
i cannot find any rest time except during 2am~6am everynight
6am = wake up and i rush off for school till 5pm
i dont even have time for breakfast

Sorry bout that i just wasnt sure about this if it was a joke

So i kinda messed around with my reply Plus you didnt say that you had tons of course works to do

For i also have a lot to do And I dont play Fiesta always leh
Are you a senoir (lvl in college ) im freakin 16 years old in college and it sucks ass i wish my highschool days wer longer cause the work they give us here is also stressing me out and my prelims exams are next week !! ahh im studying while browsing the net ...but im naturally laid back so i always find tym for games and rest

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How old are you, Frozen? Just trying to get the idea what your school's work load should be. How are you friends managing with school work? Are they stressed like you?

Why do you try to be perfect? There is no need to be perfect, you should really just try your best, and do the best you can. Teachers often stress you to freak you out, just so that the people who don't work hard will work harder. Sometimes it's probably not as hard as teachers make it sound to be. I mean, if they really do mean it, then half the year should be failing, right? And that doesn't happen, right?

Have you tried talking to your parents? What do they say? Or perhaps, talk to a teacher you like, or a school counsellor. Friends are great to turn to, but sometimes, with things related to school work, someone older (or someone not in the same situation as you) may help you out more.

i dont have much friends around
and my classmates just take the easy way out which happens to be copying my homework
i get isolated in school
and i'm 16 this year
taking N lvls and O lvls next year
i didnt want to talk to any adults as i didnt want to be worried about me
for the reason i'm trying to be perfect is not really sure...
i just keep telling myself to be better, and even if i improve, i'll say it's not enough...
and someone just told me i'm emo-ing -_-
and i was like huh? that's emo?

time to get off the comp
homeworks are queueing up

I think you should talk to your parents. Keeping it all in to yourself really won't help your situation, if you want to find a way to cope properly. School counsellors are there for a reason. Although I've never talked to one before, I heard they do help.

As for your friends copying your homework, you will need to find a way to say no. I know it's hard to say no without them disliking you for it, but hey, they'll have to get used to it. I don't like my friends copying off me either. I sometimes let them copy, I make sure that it doesn't happen all the time.

im freakin 16 years old in college and it sucks ass i wish my highschool days wer longer cause the work they give us here is also stressing me out and my prelims exams are next week !! ahh im studying while browsing the net ...but im naturally laid back so i always find tym for games and rest

Getting that much homework is crazy. I mean, if you don't even have time to do leisure activities, there is something wrong with your teachers.

I would talk to my parents about this, or maybe a school couselor. It is not okay that you're suffering like this from the school work.

And like others have said before me, you do not have to be perfect. Nobody is, and nobody will be. You'll only be putting yourself under (too) much stress to try and be perfect. Everyone has flaws, and there is nothing wrong with that.

I dunno if you're just trying to pass or try getting the highest grade possible. If it's the latter, take a step back and go for passing it.

I think you really need to vent your anger/stress/frustrations on something. You'll feel better afterwards. Try going bowling, play some tennis or baseball, go paintballing. Put all that anger into a ball and fire away!

Hurting yourself never helps you. It just adds scars and more physical pain. Maybe you should seek professional help, cuz quite honestly.. as you get older, stress just gets worse, you just need to learn how to take it on, and handle it. No offense but I have little sympathy for people who resort to stuff like cutting themselves and suicide as a way to get out of stuff, my reasons I will keep to myself because I've pissed off a lot of people in the past for it.
I know how you feel, I developed panic anxiety around the end of my Junior year in High School and I still have it. I had a lot of stuff on my plate.. I had been screwed over in a lot of classes, I was babysitting my sisters kids when I wasn't in school, I rarely had time to do homework, I had to do it in the mornings or stay in the library after school, I was running 2 clubs at school, I wanted to apply to my college of choice, which I ultimately got screwed over with, but at the same time, I was being pressured to move to Michigan with my parents, away from my goals, and do what my parents wanted and needed.
But, not once did I ever resort to or think of something drastic like phsyically mutilating myself. I suggest you try to work out some system, and get some professional help, or even go to a councilor at school. Thats what I did a lot.. my councilor at school would let me go to a meeting room there and just cry til I was ready to go back to class.
Sometimes..(I suggest it, but don't abuse it) I'd just skip class, if I was desperate enough. Like.. one of my teachers would give us projects and 3 days to do it.. I'd skip his next class, go to my friends aunts house with her, and work on my stuff then.

Ok, school work, manage your time well. Here's my guide thingy, hope this might help you or anyone else with stress problems with homework.

with stress problems with homework. I made this because it helped my older bro, others, and I when I get stress.

1. Stay after school a bit and ask your teachers about your homework, they will help you answer them. If your teachers don't help you, they are weird~_~+, teachers are suppose to help students.

2. Once return home, take a nice shower. Yep, a nice shower does work :), gets rid of some stress somehow, it worked for me, my older brother, and many of my friends, even some of my teachers said this way works.

3. After shower, dry yourself up, then you should start doing your homework. If you are still feeling a bit stressed, drink something hot, not coffee though, I think coffee makes your too hyper :/, something hot like hot milk or tea.

4. Drinking something hot while doing your homework helped me doing it easier somehow.

5. If you are still stress, take a nap, then do your homework.

6. Never not do any homework, they'll stack up and make your more stressful, do the ones that's due earliest.

7. Sleep early, like at 10:00 PM, 10:30 PM, 11:00 PM latest. Make sure to get full 8 hour of sleep.

8. Don't play games, like if you lose, you'll get more stress and want to kill someone. Experienced it, I threw my old xbox controller out the window because someone killed my 20+ killing spree in Halo2 in xbox live :(.

There is one thing you could do it helped me alot and lessened my workload

I'd ask my classmates to hold some kind of "group study" but in my case
homework.we would go to someones place..usually mine -_-...and we would seperate the work we did only if the homework they gave is too many then we would do stuff like this and if we couldnt meet we would just plan and seperate the homework and do it in our own homes and by the next day we would meet early to explain the assigntment to one another

it helped me alot and relieved alot of stress

Have you even tried getting psychological help?

Um... Do you do drugs? >.>

If its homework issues.. here's some tips.
1. Start it in class. I don't know about you, but in my classes, we had a period in time where we didn't do anything because it was almost time to leave. It was like 10 minutes. I'd start my homework then. And then on the way to the next class.. I'd do a little more before the bell rings and class begins.
2. Get a homework buddy, not group, groups tend to get distracted.
3. Stay after school. At my school, we could stay back in the library and do work. Or if the teacher who assigned you the homework stays back, ask if you can stay back and do it then.
4. Work THEN play. I grew up on that. Even when I was in elementary school, I was not allowed to do squat til my homework was done. But in High School, when I got home.. I wouldn't do it right away. Take some time to relax. Have a snack, turn on some music, just sit there and breathe for a second.

i hvnt been keeping track on this thread so excuse my slow reply...

to sleep better... do some exercise (stretch, sit ups, push ups and stuff nothing too hard), then go for a hot shower... then sit in bed and read a book / magazine for 15 mins.. before you try going to sleep...

this helps relax your body and brain....

i know if i was studying for a mad exam, or playing fiesta too much... i'll sleep with my mind thinking of the exam topic or pictuer myself playing Fiesta (0.o).... which can garantee u a bad night of sleep...

my mum also said banana help release stress.. so maybe u can have one before u go for a shower =)

u have to think of an alternative way to distract urself from hurting urself... close ur eyes and meditate for a lil bit... find a pen and draw circles on a piece of paper or something...

Don't watch TV or play videogames before bed either, spend an hour away from them. Reading is the best thing to do before bed. Usually I read mangas, they're simple things to read, and they're quick. Its relaxing, and it tires your eyes.

Well... as my Phsyc prof said... the bedroom should not have TVs and/or computers. The room is for you to sleep and have... er... 'make love'.

And studies have showed that instead of cramming 3-4 hours straight with no break. You should be studying in increments. Say you set a time to study for an hour... take a 15 minute break, even 10 minutes to have a snack or strech. Then resume studying. After you're done... don't do anything else (ie. Fiesta, read, TV...) and go straight to bed. You'll be able to retain what you had studied much better than just cramming or stressing over your workload.