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A_Forever 12-21-2009 07:41 PM

Sigh.
 
I had a huge debate in 3rd hour today with like 3-4 people. What about? Gays/Lesbians.

They knew nothing. Had no evidence of the things they said were true and no real experience with such people. They kept saying they chose to be that way...

Ugh. Ugh.

One kid seriously said.. flat out.. "Gays should be shot." Really? I will never understand such hatred! EVER! How could you ever want to end a life? How?

No one I know who is gay, chose to be. Why would they want to make their life harder than it has to be?

I offended so many people. I basically said that religion has ruined how people think. No free thinking.

These kids were saying, "The bible tells me it's wrong." So basically, their religion.. something that is supposed to be a good thing in their life and tell them to love thy neighbor... is causing such hatred. I just.. I just can't understand it. It breaks my heart to hear such hatred and ignorance. It breaks my heart that they honestly don't have the ability to think for themselves.

This is not meant to turn into some huge debate.. I'm sharing my day.

Once again, sigh.

Lirange 12-21-2009 07:52 PM

Yeah..there's a mormon in my class who thinks gays choose to be gay. Though she says she doesn't hate them she just thinks it isn't right, but anyway. How can you choose what turns you on and what doesn't? What attracts you and what doesn't? And I don't really understand how they can say they choose to be gay when the actual gay people all say they didn't choose to be gay.. Though I do believe that in a few years/decades things for gays will get better.

A_Forever 12-21-2009 07:56 PM

As I think about it now, it hurts me.

I know, I can be a cruel and blunt person but I would never wish for death on a person. Someone who has done nothing wrong. They are just living as themself.

One girl kept saying they go through a spiritual thing in their life and thats when they choose. Uhh.. nope. Nothing like that has ever happened in any gay person's life that I know of. They just found themselves looking at the same sex and they knew. Then they said, "Well, then there's something wrong in their head." IT'S NOT A DISEASE/ILLNESS/DISORDER. >_____<

Hessah 12-21-2009 09:07 PM

This might get a lot of religious people upset, but this is my view..

I think that it's rather ironic that.. I thought with the bible it tells you to love everyone, accept everyone, but here we are with homosexuals they want them burn them O_o

So many contradictions... so many things I cant understand why they believe in it..

A_Forever 12-21-2009 09:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hessah (Post 395629)
This might get a lot of religious people upset, but this is my view..

I think that it's rather ironic that.. I thought with the bible it tells you to love everyone, accept everyone, but here we are with homosexuals they want them burn them O_o

So many contradictions... so many things I cant understand why they believe in it..

Exactly.

:/

Hessah 12-21-2009 09:14 PM

Do you go to a religious school? Or just happen that those you talked to are religious?

A_Forever 12-21-2009 09:16 PM

Nope. Just a regular public school. It's a small town. The town is a square mile basically. Most kid's families have been their all their lives. Most are religious.. a lot are very religious. Christian and catholic primarily.

Hessah 12-21-2009 09:21 PM

Smile town.. sounds like a nice town! XD

Sometimes religious can be good.. like I've been to a few weddings lately where it's held at the church and they're a lot more formal and binding than those that are not religious...

But yeah.. I like my own views...

Sero 12-22-2009 01:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A_Forever (Post 395623)
These kids were saying, "The bible tells me it's wrong." So basically, their religion.. something that is supposed to be a good thing in their life and tell them to love thy neighbor... is causing such hatred. I just.. I just can't understand it. It breaks my heart to hear such hatred and ignorance. It breaks my heart that they honestly don't have the ability to think for themselves.

This is not meant to turn into some huge debate.. I'm sharing my day.

Once again, sigh.

... So you're saying that those people were Christian-Catholics? Then I'm deeply ashamed for them... I'm a Christian-Catholic myself and, never in my life have I heard of such ignorance and nonsense-in reality... What could be more embarrassing than contradicting yourself, making a fool out of yourself and simply... failing... especially in a debate... formal or informal... blaaaaaah what a shame X_X

Hraesvelg 12-22-2009 02:25 AM

Begun the path to enlightenment, you have.

Might I suggest some reading? Christopher Hitchens's God Is Not Great would probably be a good start.

A_Forever 12-22-2009 02:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hraesvelg (Post 395660)
Begun the path to enlightenment, you have.

Might I suggest some reading? Christopher Hitchens's God Is Not Great would probably be a good start.

Just making sure..

Is this directed at me?

Hraesvelg 12-22-2009 02:29 AM

Anyone could benefit, but primarily, yes.

A_Forever 12-22-2009 02:31 AM

I'm not sure how I have begun the path to enlightenment. This is how I've always thought/been.

And sure.. I'll look into that o:

Hraesvelg 12-22-2009 02:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A_Forever (Post 395665)
I'm not sure how I have begun the path to enlightenment. This is how I've always thought/been.

And sure.. I'll look into that o:

Ah, I must have had a mental glitch, there. I had thought you had a fairly religious upbringing, although now I can't articulate why I thought that. Hmm.

A_Forever 12-22-2009 02:36 AM

Nope. My parents didn't want to force anything on me and my brothers. They let us find things out for ourselves and decide.

Hraesvelg 12-22-2009 02:41 AM

Well, kudos to them, then.

A_Forever 12-22-2009 02:43 AM

Not sure why that made me laugh..

Aha.

Hessah 12-22-2009 03:11 AM

I just pictured Hraes talking like a old man stroking his beard..

@Sera - Yes I guess you get different types of christian/catholics? Some read the bible like it's facts.. some believes it but never enforce it on others...

lilruby2010 12-22-2009 05:33 AM

So I'm just going to throw my two cents in here. I am a lesbian and have been for as long as I remember. I didn't choose to be this way I believe I was born this way. It's nice to see that the people on here are excepting it makes me smile =]. Some people just choose to hate what they don't understand and there's nothing we can do about that. Ignorance is bliss and I choose to ignore the dumb hateful thig that people say and think nothing of them

Ps ignore the spell fails in this post I am writing this on my iPhone

Pss this website needs a mobile version js js XD

Hraesvelg 12-22-2009 05:40 AM

I usually find the best way to trip up the "They choose it!" argument is to ask when exactly they chose to be straight.

Sero 12-22-2009 05:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hessah (Post 395675)
I just pictured Hraes talking like a old man stroking his beard..

LOL I pictured him as our CLF (Christian Life Formation. It's a uhh... Well, it's a subject.) teacher. All wise and that shit. xD

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hessah (Post 395675)
@Sera - Yes I guess you get different types of christian/catholics? Some read the bible like it's facts.. some believes it but never enforce it on others...

Yeah, I can imagine a huge mess if these different types of Christian-Catholics meet in an open forum or debate or just talk about the whole thing or whatever. And you're right, some of them read the Bible like all the things in it are facts, there are those who take things too literally, there are those who take things too figuratively, there are those who've read everything yet remain confused about what the writings are trying to mean, or what the reality (about it) is. Well, that's religion .-. I mean for example, if you're a Christian-Catholic like I am, you can't tell a Hindu that he/she's going to hell if he/she commits suicide, if there isn't even any such thing as hell in Hinduism (this is just an example, I have... no ideas about Hinduism and uhh, Hindu damnation/damnation in terms of Hinduism (though, I personally think that there's bound to be damnation everywhere lol)). I mean who knows what will happen, what's really true or whatever, I'm not even sure if the things I'm typing are what I'm really trying to mean, @.@ There are even those who claim to be strong believers yet they go against what they believe, which is just absurd rofl. I admit there are even times when I question and doubt things. But ah well, in the advent of such, my sister just keeps telling me that religion is religion and faith is faith. Blahblahblah. Then we'd end up in an argument and things end up all the same. The end. *.*

Sero 12-22-2009 05:44 AM

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Originally Posted by lilruby2010 (Post 395698)
So I'm just going to throw my two cents in here. I am a lesbian and have been for as long as I remember. I didn't choose to be this way I believe I was born this way. It's nice to see that the people on here are excepting it makes me smile =]. Some people just choose to hate what they don't understand and there's nothing we can do about that. Ignorance is bliss and I choose to ignore the dumb hateful thig that people say and think nothing of them

Ps ignore the spell fails in this post I am writing this on my iPhone

Pss this website needs a mobile version js js XD

+1.

Hraesvelg 12-22-2009 05:47 AM

You'll just go to hell for being a dirty double-poster.

Sero 12-22-2009 05:59 AM

nuuuuuuu D: me no wan hellz pl0x

Hraesvelg 12-22-2009 06:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Serendira (Post 395705)
nuuuuuuu D: me no wan hellz pl0x

Sorry, I just asked...

http://loljesus.com/submissions/lolj...go_to_hell.jpg

Hessah 12-22-2009 06:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hraesvelg (Post 395699)
I usually find the best way to trip up the "They choose it!" argument is to ask when exactly they chose to be straight.

HAHAH!! I like that...

Quote:

Originally Posted by Serendira (Post 395700)
And you're right, some of them read the Bible like all the things in it are facts, there are those who take things too literally, there are those who take things too figuratively,

I think it's those who talk figuratively that gets me confused.. @_@ But I'm not too concern that I don't understand them LOL..

Hessah 12-23-2009 03:58 AM

This is kinda an interesting read for the non-religious people.. or the religious ones who wont be offended..

http://www.smh.com.au/opinion/you-wo...1222-lbr8.html

MikeyG 12-23-2009 04:40 AM

The bible was a nice fantasy novel, it's up their with lord of the rings.

Jikanu 12-23-2009 05:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by A_Forever (Post 395623)
I offended so many people. I basically said that religion has ruined how people think. No free thinking.

Sad fact, but dont forget that plenty of us are different. i have 2 gay friends, and im still religious... Really, the problem isnt religion, but the people. they're sheep.

*headdesk@the rest of this thread*...

1. Christ preached unity, not seclusion.

2. Mary wasnt the one to proclaim Jesus as the son of God.

Quote:

* Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. (Verse 3)
* Blessed are the meek: for they shall possess the land. (Verse 4)
* Blessed are they who mourn: for they shall be comforted. (Verse 5)
* Blessed are they that hunger and thirst after justice: for they shall have their fill. (Verse 6)
* Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy. (Verse 7)
* Blessed are the clean of heart: for they shall see God. (Verse 8)
* Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God. (Verse 9)
* Blessed are they that suffer persecution for justice' sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. (Verse 10)

Chimaera 12-23-2009 06:09 AM

I've met too many people like that. :zzz:

But here's my opinion on such a sensitive topic:

I think being homosexual is just a different balance of hormones than people who are otherwise. You're not born that way (it's not genetic) and it's not much of a choice. Your hormone balance can rapidly change, especially during and after puberty.

Triumph 12-23-2009 06:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jikanu (Post 395852)
Really, the problem isnt religion, but the people. they're sheep.

Religion does exactly that. People become sheep, regurgitating what others say.

Jikanu 12-23-2009 06:16 AM

Religion doesnt do that... the people do. though you could argue that religion and faith are different...

My perspective is that religion/faith is fine, if looked at correctly. People misinterpret it, but it can be something really beautiful and true if its looked at in the right way.

Example: genetics. A perfectly pure, good thing. However, nazis take it and use it to justify anti-semetism, therefore corrupting it, and making it something that it wasn't initially meant for.

lame example, but its all i can think of at this time of night.

Hessah 12-23-2009 06:18 AM

isnt religion, or more specifically catholic/christian, the reason why same sex marriage are not permitted in most jurisdictions?!

you have gay friends, but would you mind if they got married?

and it's PEOPLE that created religion right?! So.. that goes hand in hand?

Jikanu 12-23-2009 06:25 AM

Of course i wouldnt. I think that, seeing as the bible was written by humans, certain parts could be twisted and corrupted. Of course the argument that one loose thread leads to the whole thing unraveling, but there's really no credence to that.

Also, there's the theory that Jesus's coming canceled out the laws of moses, as he stated himself.

MikeyG 12-23-2009 06:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jikanu (Post 395859)
Of course i wouldnt. I think that, seeing as the bible was written by humans, certain parts could be twisted and corrupted. Of course the argument that one loose thread leads to the whole thing unraveling, but there's really no credence to that.

Also, there's the theory that Jesus's coming canceled out the laws of moses, as he stated himself.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MikeyG (Post 395849)
The bible was a nice fantasy novel, it's up their with lord of the rings.

.

Jikanu 12-23-2009 06:29 AM

Proof pl0x.

@hessah: not sure if i made it entirely clear in my last statement, but i AM pro-gay marriage.

MikeyG 12-23-2009 06:30 AM

Lmao did you really just ask me for proof? Why doesn't a religious person like yourself provide "proof" of these biblical events actually happening and being fact? So my belief is along the same lines as yours.

Jikanu 12-23-2009 06:33 AM

Exactly. So this is really a rather pointless argument, seeing as neither side has proof, isnt it?

My initial point was thus:

Religion, or faith, rather, is a safe, pure thing. Its corruption and bigotry within human beings, along with our resistance to thinking for ourselves, that makes it a tool of hate.

Quote:

"You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven."
-Matthew 5:43-45
Doesnt exactly relate, but its general message does.

MikeyG 12-23-2009 06:34 AM

I wasn't arguing. Your defensiveness is annoying.

Hessah 12-23-2009 06:35 AM

Hmmm good to see that young minds probably moving forward regardless of "what the bible said"...

Though if I ever wanna be religions I think I'll go buddhism... xD


Wait I missed a few post.. Proof? I was just gonna question how you proved that Mary was a virgin, Jesus died and came back alive, and that his body disappeared magically into a better place...?


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