If your sick of being single on Valentines Day...POST HERE PLZ! ^_^
 

I used to :love: Valentines Day and now I HATE IT! I am so sick of seeing all my friends having b/fs and me just having to wait until I'm 16 to even go date a guy! I mean I know my parents have very good intentions and I kind of agree on the point of dating at 16 but its so hard! =[ I have had plenty of guys ask me out and I have to say no every time and I dread it when a guy asks me out! Well my point is if you are in a similar situation or you feel my pain then plz plz POST! :cries:

It's a commerical holiday.

Don't buy into it.

I R single, but I has stalker.

Ah, youth. I kinda remember it.

how old are u hrae, 86? ._.

You're only as old as you feel. So, yes, LOL

<3

TIP: your parents dont have to know everything your doing;]

But we find out even if we don't tell you we know we know and we are just waiting for you to admit it.

:laugh:

I can read my children like a book. They have tried in the past to lie to me but I catch them every time.

So even when you think you have gotten away with something you probably didn't

:laugh:

your child isnt very good at keep secrets then=]

Welcome to FF

And yes, your parents will know. They just do. Do what I did... be honest and when you want to ask them a favour like stay out a bit later than usual it goes through. -nodnod- It pays to be honest y'know... just don't break that trust.

My parents left the house to myself for me thiss saturday :) Hella potent.

D: whenever I lie to my parents I eventually tell them and then find out they had no idea I was lying

Just wait it out. Itll be worth it.

Yup... parents know everything...

I still don't know how.. but they just knows....

It's amazingly simple to tell if your own kid is lying, unless they're a total sociopath.

Parents are also amazingly good at not showing wat they know....

My mom generally knows whatsup so I rarely
lie to her and if I do she usually knows so I
tell her most stuff I do. ALWAYS her main concern is if im safe
other then that shes just happy I was honest. If you lie and get caught
you really get fucked over.

Yeah, that's the thing. I can handle bad situations, just don't lie about it.

LMAO.

Well.. I can honestly say that my mother and definitely my father don't know a few things. Pretty big things too. I don't plan on telling them about these things for a very VERY long time :3

Its the reason why my mother snoops around in my room. She doesn't know my secrets. Thats why she went into my e-mail before >__> Found nothing but stilll...........

My dad just stays out of my business. Especially when it comes to relationships. He's always said that his children's love lives are their business. I love my daddy<3

But yeah.. parents don't know everything. At least mine don't.

You might be surprised. As I've become an adult, in having conversations with my mom, I've had to say "Wait...wait...you KNEW about that?" plenty of times.

She knows nothing. =.=

Makes her uncomfortable because she feels the need to know exactly what I'm doing, when I'm doing it and why I'm doing it.

Thats why she wants to start having these 'Liz Days' every week. Where her and I like.. do stuff. o_o

Err. Anyways..

To OP- Just say yes to one of the guys. You could always go on group dates. Heh. You, him and a lot of friends/other couples :x

or you could just hang out with them :P like say
"i cant go out with you because(explain) , but we can still hang out ^^" idk thats what i would do... its not exactly a bf, but more like good friends? o-o lol idk

There's no 'On Hold' option?


Ahh, just try to abide by their rules. Flagrant disregard will only hurt your chances and standing with them.

dont chase someone whos not chasing back
its annoying for BOTH of you
-_-

Lamo your kids must suck at lying.
Let me give them some lessons :)


This year i am Crushing on this girl Bad, real bad, and i am sure i got her too she is just beating around the bush, its okay though though i am a patient person

If my mom snooped through my room I'd kill her.
My room is mine and she respects that.
Another thing about the honesty. I dunno I cant compare
my mom to alot of parents though because we've always
had a kinda friends relationship. I like taking my mom to lunch etc.
And I can never understand why parents ground their kids for dumb things
or dont let them out for no reason.

My mom is paranoid and thinks I'm spying on her for my dad ;o

Gotta go all grown-up on this thread.

Bad bad advise you are giving there.

There have been many a kid who ended up in a bad way because they were in places they should not have been with people they should not have been with and thought they were so cool coz they pulled one over on their parents. And I knew someone who ended up in a state of a 14-yr old body with a 4-yr old mind when she was beat near to death and left for dead when she lied about where she would be that night.

To the OP, wait and be patient. too many people prey on kids who are too young to be out like that.

Ummm... We would have just had to go to war over that "mine" part. The way I see it, since I paid the mortgage, it belongs to me, I am letting you use my space until you are old enough & financially able to provide your own place.

If you are old enough & financially able to provide your own place, then I say move out and you don't occupy my space.

And I don't rent my space out to people (not even family) because I don't plan to risk some dumbass trying to run a crack-shop (or any thing else that would put my home at risk) in my house because they pay rent for the space.

Lol Loki hit yall with the "you dont pay bills Card" LMAO LMAO LMAO

My mom doesn't pay the bills either o:

My step-dad does. xD

Ill be honest though...

I had NO Private space at home.... Proboly why i skiped school everyday.
I got kicked out at least 3 times
I still graduated on time. With my HSD AND GED an current in college.....
Not my family miss me >.>...

To make a long story short....
Talk with ya folks about things dont be smart about what you do. Dont always try to get over but please dont make no rash deceisions there are a lot of people out here who will take avantage of you.
Then again people dont listen they will have to learn though experience...


Lucky for me.... I had no super ba thing happen to me...
Every though i skipped school everyday...so do the forbidden...

I never smoked or drinked. though it was all around me. I pick my own path. When people say be a Leader and not a follower they mean it. Dont let other people controll what you do make your own deceisions and be smart about it :)

just my 2 cents.

Even with all this said...No Parent dont know everything that goes on in the childrens lifes.. even if you thing you do..

I Am Neither a parent nor a Child Actually i al Right in the middle at 20 years of ages my parent still wants to know ever thing i do. but i dont have no one actions i need to be watching over

lmfao my mom thinks everyone should have there own space.
so should a kid, because you cant think the kids goin to pay anything?

Probably comes down to respect...

Growing up, I never really did much that's against my mum... I'll ask her if i can go out, no?, OK. Never really kicked up any fuss...

As I respect my mum's decisions, she respects me for my space. She wouldn't open my letters or read my diary or rumble through my draws or anything (unless she's looking for like scissors or something LOL!)

But that probably also come down to my personality... I prefer peace.. rather miss out on some fun with frds than to get my mum upset...

Well, Loki, it's not entirely bad to hide stuff from your parents.

This friend of mine won this country-level gaming competition, and the final was going to be aired on a later date. (He won 10,000 bucks in it BTW). He decided to surprise his parents with the news, and when the final was being shown on TV, he proudly pointed and told his parents, "That's me, I won the tournament, and see, I won all this money." And then his parents took the money from him and said, "This money wasn't won morally, and I don't like you distracting yourself from your studies. As a student, your only responsibility is to study, and that's what you should be doing."

My friend was SO pissed. If he had just not told his parents, he would have had 10,000 bucks to binge with, or save or whatever. Some parents are just like that. I don't agree with the "Kids shouldn't have secrets" adage. They're entitled to anything that adult's have once they start forming coherent, meaningful thought processes.


Coming to the "I pay the bills" example, once the parents get retired (at least over here), they are dependent on their children (along with the pension). Who pays the bills then? Parents develop their kids to have a good job so they can start depending on themselves, and so they can eventually have someone to depend on in their old age. Nobody would like their son peeking into every private matter of an old parent would they? Trust me, kids will feel the same way.

Wow that surprise didnt turn out too well...

Did the parents take it for themselves to spend? That would suck... now your friend would never tell his parents if he earns good money... and i hate to say, but the parents kinda asked for it. But then I wonder how "immoral" something can be if it's aired on TV..? (unless its like Big Brother or something LOL!)

But yeah, I do believe that kids treat their parents, the way the parents treat the kids.

Trust and Respects go both ways.

I understand why you are encouraging the OP to wait for her parents' opinion. I just wanted to point out that not all parents know what's best.

Yeah.. maybe not all parents know wats best.. but disobeying even bad parents could very well result in something bad i guess...

It could just as easily result in something much better.