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O-mie 02-27-2008 11:16 AM

Awh, don't worry booyah. Parents are evil, evil, foul creatures whose soul purpose in life is making their offspring feel bad. D: You must not let them win! Fire it back at her. Say, oh, I guess you ARE The observant one today, I guess there's a first time for everything!

Nah, don't really say that. You might get in bad troubles lOL

booyah8876 02-27-2008 11:24 AM

I'm so glad you can make a joke of it...

because I feel like crying.

Belaslav 02-27-2008 11:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by booyah8876 (Post 98176)
I'm so glad you can make a joke of it...

because I feel like crying.

O.o

What do they do to you?

booyah8876 02-27-2008 12:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by booyah8876 (Post 98171)
Like... the frustration right now...

of all that worrying, and trying my best to get it all done right.

Then my mum comes down stairs, and I told her no school, she says

"Yeah, I've known that since 10 'til 5 this morning. Shows how observant you are."

And this... makes me so hurt inside, because all I want to do is be the best I can, and I tried showing an effort after 2 days of slacking off. When I show the most effort, it's all ignored.

I really feel so dead inside.

^That

=/

O-mie 02-27-2008 12:14 PM

I'm not trying to make a joke of it, I'm trying to cheer you up. >_>

booyah8876 02-27-2008 12:22 PM

It's not going to work =/

My mother has once again failed to see me trying to show improvement, and after years of trying, I just can't see the point of trying anymore.

Anyone lvl 55+ wanna come grind with me? Oo.

O-mie 02-27-2008 12:28 PM

I come from a family who is based on "success", and their idea of you being successful isn't you being happy or being successful in what YOU Want - its you being successful the way THEY want.

So, speaking from experience - Just be yourself. You shouldn't have to prove yourself all the time - to your parents most of all. So stop trying to improve, unless its something you want to improve upon just for yourself. Otherwise, its not worth it.

booyah8876 02-27-2008 05:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by O-mie (Post 98205)
I come from a family who is based on "success", and their idea of you being successful isn't you being happy or being successful in what YOU Want - its you being successful the way THEY want.

So, speaking from experience - Just be yourself. You shouldn't have to prove yourself all the time - to your parents most of all. So stop trying to improve, unless its something you want to improve upon just for yourself. Otherwise, its not worth it.

I don't live in this situation.

My mother calls it a "Give to get" relationship. I give chores, and responsibility, and I, in turn, get other things that benefit me. (Extras outside living essentials.)

The only problem is that I don't show 100% of the time that I'm competent to live alone, and that I have that responsibility, so therefore, I'm not allowed to do things.

She would also like to add that I'm not allowed my liscence until I'm 18, nor am I allowed to take rides in cars with friends, or go anywhere without adult supervision until I'm 18 "... as long as you're still in my wallet."

So yes...

This is why I dump tons of my life into this MMO, and this site.

My mother refuses to let me have a life outside of school and work, therefore, I use what resources I have (the internet) to make whatever kind of "life" I can.

This is what kills me the most.

Belaslav 02-27-2008 07:41 PM

Hmm... I'm pretty much in the same situation, except it's not as harsh as yours, but I can tell you that your only options are "Fight or flight": Confront your mom, or move out. If you want, you also try to contact a lawyer firm and get emancipated, but it's all in your hands.

WizardsRequiem 02-27-2008 08:55 PM

Just do what I do and ignore her. Wait until you're 18 and then get the fuck out of there. Thats the absolute best advice anyone can give you. Obviously she isn't pleased by you trying so why bother? Just wait until you're an adult and then leave, don't ever bother looking back either.


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