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Eh some people are a little nutty.

You gotta be a little understanding though to, is it her first trip
far away from family/home? Sometimes kids on vacation with other families just get homesick :P

No. She is now saying we called her mom a bitch. I would never do that. I freaking love her mom and dad's company. They let me stay at her house for a week.

They are all fighting on her mom's status. She won't even talk to us. She is sitting out there on the phone with her boyfriend just crying and saying she doesn't want to talk to us.

We have tried to freaking please her this whole time. Last night we walked 2.5 miles to Mcdonalds. There and back because we thought that was what she wanted. We took her out to lunch today because that was what we thought she wanted. I feel like we have bent over backwards trying to keep her happy. All we got in return was more complaints.

Now she is going to end.. what? a 6yr long friendship over this trip. If everything we have done to make her freaking happy.. won't work then I am lost!

I sent her a huge ass message on facebook. She deleted me.

Quote:

You won't even talk to us.

I would never call your mom a bitch! I love your family and you! Do you want to know what happened today? Because that has to be the only reason you would be mad.

Here's what happened:
We didn't know what to do with you anymore.

The first day we got here you were unhappy. My mom and I have tried to keep everyone happy. Life gets in the way sometimes though... and we couldn't do everything we wanted. But really.. things were just moved around in the schedule. You wanted to go do something every day and we tried. The mall(s) were the only option. At the malls you didn't want to walk around as much as us.. does that mean we should stop having fun and just go home? :/

You kept saying you didn't like any of the food we had, well I tried to get my mom to take you to what you wanted. She did a few times. And last night I only went to McDonalds thinking thats what you wanted. We went to lunch only because I thought that was what you wanted. But you still seemed unhappy.

So, today at the mall when you still kept saying "I don't want to be here" I couldn't take it anymore. I feel like nothing we have done, my mom and I, has pleased you in any way whatsoever. But have we honestly hurt you? Mentally or physically?

Tonight we haven't talked to you because we thought you needed space since in the car you seemed upset. You were blasting your music and not trying to talk to us. Tonight you didn't come to us and tell us you were thinking about getting a ticket. That hurt us and that is why we decided to wait for you to come talk to us. You never did. We are hurt that we tried so hard and nothing made you happy at all.

I'm sorry your trip down here hasn't been good, but we don't know what you want. My mom didn't know either. Every day she would ask me "Is Taylor okay? Is she unhappy? What does she want?" and I tried and tried to get what you wanted out of you.. but ended up trying to have to guess since all I got was "I just want to go somewhere." I don't know what I am suppose to do or say anymore.

Are you really going to end a 6yr long friendship over this? And what is this?

I think there has been a huge misunderstanding on both ends here. Did I mean for you to feel so hurt that you cry? Fuck no. I love you like a freaking sister.

Maybe the stress of being away from home for so long has gotten to you? This is your first big trip. I don't know! What do you want me to do? I don't want to lose you, but you have to understand that my mom and I have tried this past week. We have!

Sometimes you gotta leave the bad seeds behind Liz.
Not saying you might want to ...
I've gone through a few best friends lost, but the ones
that are truly there have always stuck with me, and should happen the same way with you. You'll know you guys are truly
friends if you can make up through this... hell I've fist fought more then a couple of my friends, and we're friends after .. thats the nice thing about being a guy :P

I want to give up. There's no way anything can be fixed with her leaving so soon. I'm tired of being the one to keep trying and giving. Nothing can be resolved if the effort isn't split up.

I don't want to lose her but if she won't even talk to us civilly then what else is there for me to do?

just give her a bit of time like let her think it all out but
stay around her and try talk to her and show her that u care wen u do
she just seems out of place after me reading all this time is needed
some times idk if i sounds dumb right now just like 90% asleep hahah <3

She leaves today. There's no time to just let people think.

She flew out at 2 something. She is stuck in Ohio due to storms and might have to sleep in the airport now. Karma?

Wow...WTF? Could this be any more of a cliche situation. Didn't we say this could happen, out of some weird movie style story line? But seriously, wtf. I'm sorry to hear this happened, but it seems to me Taylor didn't want to be there from the start. She should never had gone and you and Corinna could have had fun without her and this wouldn't have happened. Taylor really should of thought about the length of this trip if she really couldn't handle being away from home and her boyfriend for so long.

So... all this drama started 'cuz she can't handle friends getting some space when she's really bitchy and annoying?

Guess she's just too immature for you, it hapeennnnss.