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Hessah 11-12-2007 01:16 AM

Ooo so you dont live with your parents? that's an amazing job you've got there... to be given responsibility but not as a result of something you did...

i suppose its not easy, but you must be proud of wat you've achieved!

So, what happened with the last child? did they hv to put him on rehab for a bit? i cant imagine baby hving to go through a rehab... =/

And i hope your sister is coming around and see that there's a lot more healthier stuff waiting for her =)

Lady-Loki 11-12-2007 02:24 AM

That is so sad! So many teenagers don't realize the repercussions and consequences of their choices and actions until long after they have impacted so many lives in so many ways. It has to be real hard on your parents also because they are dealing with raising another group of kids and coping with all the issues their own child has brought to them. There is probably also some feelings of lose over the grandkids they know are out there but may not be as much a pert of their world as would have been under normal circumstances. I hope all works out well for your parents and hopefully your sister will get cleaned up and one day be able to be a mom to her kids so your parents can be grandparents instead of surrogate parents.

Yosei 11-12-2007 02:28 AM

I still live with them. While they're at work, I watch my niece, and one of my nephews on Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Fridays. One summer, well, for about 5 months, when I was 15, I was living with my sister though, to "help" her raise the kids. But she'd be sleeping or going to different places, while I sat in my room, taking care of my niece. Worst 5 months of my life. All I did was sit in my room, at my computer, with my niece in my lap. Coincidently I played MMO's to pass time. She seriously wouldn't let me eat. I'd have to hide food in my room, and that was things like bottled water and poptarts. And every night my mom would come get me and take me out to eat. I couldn't sneak into the kitchen to get food, she'd just start beating on me, or get my brother in law to carry me out. When school started, she tried convincing my mom to drop me out of school so I could help her. Eventually, my parents realized what was going on, so they filed for custody and took me and the kids.
And that is the story of my life lol. Its a lot more complicated, and a lot more things were happening, but that'd be a novel. But yeah.. That is why I am always on here, thats why I'm always at home. Thats why my niece and nephews are always here.

People seriously take such things for granted. My sister honestly admits she doesn't know which she cares more about, getting high or the kids. I'm more than certain she cares about her kids, but the drugs help with the guilt.

NavMan 11-12-2007 07:23 AM

That's quite the life you've had there Yosei. One curious question though, when you said you had to get up in the middle of the night to feed your niece/nephew (forgot which one lol), did you mean....breast-feed? 0:

Anyway, there's no problem with old mom and dad's. My mom just had another son 13 years after she had my sister. And my parents are in there late 40's. Just think, when my brother will be my age, my parents will be well into their 60's.

Spirit 11-12-2007 01:05 PM

@Lady-Loki, you made me cry. I love you!!!!

Yosei 11-12-2007 01:59 PM

Lol, no, I fed it formula ;p

Hessah 11-12-2007 09:31 PM

u cant really breast feed a kid.. unless u had the kid urself... =/

we dont just produce milk out of nowhere kekeke

Zotius 11-13-2007 01:36 AM

o.0 Really? I see... Well I hope everything turns out well in the end for Yosei.

MagesRequiem 11-29-2007 11:28 AM

I could never really make a decision like that. I'd never be able to live with myself either way and that right there is the main reason I am never having children.


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